Many men and women struggle with commitment phobia—an intense fear of long‑term, emotionally mature relationships that keeps them from fully investing in love. This article explores the most common roots of fear of commitment, including “Peter Pan” avoidance of adult responsibility, painful family role models, the myth of greener pastures, and a deep dread of rejection or failure. If you or your partner keep pulling back when things get serious, this blog will help you recognize the patterns, understand what drives them, and take practical steps toward a healthier, more secure commitment.